3 ways to get noticed by your qualify women

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#1: USE PROPER BODY LANGUAGE

  SHOCKER: body language is almost MORE important than words when you first meet a great woman!

  This is why most guys INSTANTLY destroy any chance of success by acting nervous... submissive... even (gag) apologetic when they approach a woman.

  This sends the INSTANT signal that they aren't ANY woman's "Mr. Right"...

  ... which INSTANTLY shuts down her receptiveness to being approached.

  Sounds like a hopeless, vicious cycle, right?

  Well, it is.

  However:

  Once a man can "pave the way" to connecting with a woman by losing the nervous tics and twitches...

  Sustaining eye contact...

  Speaking, strongly, slowly and clearly...

  Then he's MORE than halfway to winning her FULL attention!

  #2: START A GREAT CONVERSATION

  When it comes to getting noticed by quality women, the best way to "flirt" is to know how to start (and carry on) a great conversation.

  And to do it, I recommend that all grown men take a page out of the Boy Scout handbook...

  ... and BE PREPARED.

  That means always continuing to EDUCATE yourself.

  It means always having a few "hot" current topics in your back pocket and being well-versed on them.

  It means mentally rehearsing them if you have to so that you can converse in a smooth, confident way.

  Here's a great way to make all of that happen:

  I recommend reading one major newspaper cover-to- cover every day... there's no better way to get a "crash course" on what's happening in the world and the ability to speak on it intelligently.

  Now...

  Mix in some intelligent HUMOR to the conversation (study comedy books if you have to) and you'll suddenly find TONS of great women opening the door to the possibility that you just might be their "Mr. Right".

  For example:

  Once you've started a conversation, if a woman says something like, "I usually don't go out with guys I haven't known for a long time," be ready with a cocky / funny observation...

  ... AND then make it highlight one of your personal qualities!

  One of my favorite ways to do it is to say something like, "Gee, I hope you've already met your future husband then, and that he's half as (smart... tall... funny... wonderful... whatever) as me..."

  See what's happening there?

  #3: LOWER THE STAKES

  No doubt about it: the biggest reason men have trouble with #1 and #2 is because they're so TENSE... so NERVOUS... even SO SCARED when they meet a great woman.

  And it's all because they feel like there's so much AT STAKE.

  In other words, most guys are so worried that they're going "blow it" and embarrass themselves...

  Or they're so certain that, if they DO blow it, they're doomed to never have a chance with a great woman again...

  ... that they start sabotaging themselves right from the beginning.

  This is why I suggest that men look at EVERY first meeting with a woman as one of MANY to come...

  ... and then act accordingly!

  Act like you're meeting with a good buddy or an old friend for a casual outing... and then BEHAVE that way.

  Even better:

  Imagine how you'd act on a first date if you were behaving like you KNEW with 100%-certainty that a woman already thought you were her Mr. Right...

  What would you do?

  Here's what....

  You'd ask MEANINGFUL questions about her deeper interests and passions instead of making nervous "small talk."

  You'd PAY ATTENTION to her answers and follow up in smart, appropriate ways.

  You'd REMEMBER what was important to her, and focus on those subjects.

  Okay, I know, I know...

  "Imagining" all of this sounds like a big shift in the way most guys think...

  And YOU'RE RIGHT.

  It actually IS.

  But -- once YOU can make this change to your so- called "inner game" -- it will result in a HUGE change in how easy it is for you to get the attention of great women.

  In fact... it will start to happen AUTOMATICALLY!!!

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